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Growing Up Gay in America [Secure Microsoft Reader]
eBook by Jason R. Rich
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eBook Category: Family/Relationships
eBook Description: Growing Up Gay in America provides answers to common questions and offers positive, practical, and accurate advice on a wide range of topics and issues currently facing gay, questioning, and bisexual teen males in America. There are currently over 2,700,000 teenagers in America who are questioning their sexuality or who believe themselves to be gay or bisexual. A staggering percentage of these teens are severely depressed, confused, and frightened. They're forced to deal with the challenges of being a teen; confront the inaccurate misconceptions related to homosexuality; and deal with emotional and/or physical abuse from homophobic parents, teachers, peers and coworkers. This continues to result in high levels of suicide, alcoholism and drug abuse among gay teens. Growing Up Gay in America will help anyone who is feeling depressed, alone, confused, and/or alienated by the people around them (as a result of being afraid to accept and/or confront their sexual orientation). This book will help the reader understand who they are; build their self-esteem; overcome their anxiety and depression; and deal with everyday life as they pursue true happiness. Most importantly, they'll understand what it means to be gay. Growing Up Gay in America is an upbeat, easy-to-read and extremely valuable resource for gay and questioning teens, as well as parents and teachers of gay teens.
eBook Publisher: Teen Talk Communications, Published: 2002
Fictionwise Release Date: February 2003
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Available eBook Formats [Secure Microsoft Reader - What's this?]: SECURE MICROSOFT READER FORMAT [3.1 MB] - Requires Microsoft Reader 2.1.1 for PCs, or Microsoft Reader 2.2.2 on Pocket PC 2002 handheld devices. Some older Pocket PCs can be upgraded. Learn More.
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Microsoft Reader ISBN: 09719414080795200005 eReader (recommended) ISBN: 0795200021

Introduction As a teenager, you're probably filled with questions, strong emotions, raging hormones, a wide range of desires and countless challenges in your daily life. Well, guess what... that's normal! But, have your sexual thoughts, urges and desires been focusing more on other guys as opposed to girls? Have you begun questioning your sexual orientation? Are you thinking perhaps you might be gay or bisexual, or that something is wrong with you? As a result, are you confused, scared, lonely, or depressed because you're too embarrassed or ashamed to talk to others about what you're feeling and experiencing? Whatever you're going through, be assured you're not alone! You're also not abnormal, a freak, a sexual deviant or "sick in the head" - no matter what people may tell you or what you might think. It's common for young guys to be curious and/or experiment sexually. So, the feelings you're having don't automatically mean you're gay or even bisexual. While there are no truly accurate statistics about the size of America's gay population, one estimate is that between five and six percent of America's youth (people under the age of18) consider themselves to be gay, bisexual or lesbian. This translates to upwards of 2,700,000 young people in America who don't believe themselves to be straight. If you do happen to be gay (or bisexual), do you truly understand what this means, or do you buy into the negative and incorrect stereotypes about homosexuality and the gay community? Try to keep an open mind as you begin to understand what you're feeling and experiencing. In America, and throughout the world, people tend to be categorized into stereotypes. The less people know and understand about other people, the crueler and less accurate the stereotypes tend to be. Let's face it, being gay is something that most people don't understand, and many don't accept. This doesn't change the fact that one out of ten people in America is gay. So, if you're gay, bisexual or still questioning your sexuality, you're not alone. This topic isn't something most teen guys choose to talk about openly, especially with straight friends, family members, religious leaders and teachers. What Does It Mean To Be Gay? Well, that's a tough question. The generic answer is that a guy who is gay is sexually attracted to other guys, not girls. Someone who is bisexual is attracted to both guys and girls. When it comes to discovering more about who you are, forget about titles and stereotypes. Whether you're openly gay and have accepted yourself as being gay, or you're confused about your sexuality because of feelings you may have for other guys, it's common to feel alone, confused, scared and maybe even disgusted with yourself. Chances are, the concept of being gay goes against everything you've been taught and perhaps the religious or family values you've grown up with. Yet, you can't deny the thoughts, feelings, dreams and urges you have. If you're currently questioning your sexuality, you're about to confront one of the scariest and confusing aspects of your life. While straight guys sometimes experiment with other guys, yet grow up to lead "straight" lives, there are certainly plenty of young guys, typically between the ages of 12 and 24, who know in their hearts they're gay or bisexual. They are forced to come to terms with who they are, and then decide whether or not they want to share this revelation with those around them. These days, young guys are realizing that they're gay very early in life, and many are coming out in their early teens. Is Being Gay A Choice? Nope! Most people don't wake up one morning and say, "Gee, being gay looks cool. I'm going to fall in love with a guy today and have sex by nightfall." Many people believe homosexuality is a choice... They're wrong! It's not typically a conscious decision to be gay or bisexual. Yet, there's no proof that being gay is hereditary (passed on through genes from your parents or grandparents). While you probably didn't choose to be gay, leading an openly gay life (where you come out to your friends and family, for example), is a decision you may or may not choose to make at this point in your life. Someone who is comfortable with his sexuality and doesn't hide the fact he's gay is considered openly gay, while someone who keeps his sexual orientation and feelings a secret is considered to be in the closet. For someone who is gay, there are many misconceptions you'll need to deal with. There are also questions you'll need accurate answers to as you attempt to understand yourself, your feelings and your emotions. While everyone's experience is unique, many gay guys face similar questions, issues and fears. Everyone has his own issues and fears to deal with and overcome. Unfortunately, this book can't supply you with all of the answers you need. Nor can it guarantee that no matter what your sexual preference is, your life will be happy and "normal." That's up to you! What this book does offer, however, are answers to common questions; advice for dealing with many of the issues and situations you'll face as you confront your sexuality; and plenty of resources that will allow you to share your feelings, thoughts and fears with others who are in exactly the same Copyright © 2002 by Jason R. Rich
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